Good to hear from you. Don't worry, being cautious has been my mode for so long now! I keep thinking about the ways that will best help him to move towards me in the gentlest and most natural way.
Re the texts I also notice that when I need help to take the kids to appointments there were 3 phases-What do you want me to do about it? then I can't, I'm busy and now ok or I have an appointment but I'll see if I can change it. It's good to look back and see the progress.
