Another thing...and you're not going to like this, but I noticed the ages: 43/33. Ok...she may be starting to feel the numbers here. I'm close to your age (snicker) and us guys, usually at that age are done um, running around...been there, done that. I'm trying to be as straight as I can be with you and that 33 MAY be a factor...on her side. Not to be too alarmed though. as they say: "All the good ones are taken" I do believe that. She may be freaking out a bit too. Going back to what I said above^, continue to be a good man and father and IF, and I heavily empathize IF, she thinks she's 'missing out' there is not much quality out there.If you have not read the DB book, by all means do so. It's the only reason that I'm talking about this. I believe this is part of my ex's decision. Above all, I don't believe you're here to have everybody tell you that things will be fine. They are not. Otherwise, you would not be here. Same as me. You want advice, and it's not going to be all pleasant. You're in for a very bumpy ride. Life is going to suk, if it already does not. Read lovenomatterwhat thread. It will give you inspiration. I'll be back.