I would like to suggest that you not continue to ask her about an A or OM.
I have not said a word to her about this since mid-May. I'm just venting, letting the gears in my head grind away and hoping to find a way to purge this BS out of my life!
M (46) W (45) S (17) D (14) D (6) T (20) M (17) Seperated 3/2009 . When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze." Isaiah 43:2