doodles, I think that the only intention of that message was to freak you out. And I think that its something that your H actually admits that everything she says is lies. How strange that he would have to want to anything to do with someone who he has to explain away like that.
I hope that you can find some peace now, and that she really will leave you alone, though part of me really hopes that she gets just enough rope to hang herself with.
I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...