WAW wants to get togeather?

[bluerain]

That makes sense. Im not sure what you could say to not make yourself seem like a doormat. Maybe that you are working on yourself, trying to make yourself a better H and father. Do not ask her to come home, or to work on the M with you, she already knows that you want to, so repeating yourself wont help.

I think that I would also sort of rehearse what you would say, I actually made a list of positive things I could talk about with H. I would stay gentle, and loving, dont seem desperate. Hmm, I hope that other people can chime in and give you some more advice.