No I don't really have a getaway plan. I'm not physically afraid of him.
The latest big thing was that he drove drunk with the kids in the car.. I of course laid down the law, and he gave me some lame fake apologies that meant, in his mind, that I was supposed to immediately forget about it. Well, I didn't. I kindly, and I stress that it WAS kindly, told him how unacceptable things had gotten and that he absolutely could not drink ANYTHING and drive. He became furious with me. this was all thru email, during which he said he'd take what I said into consideration.
But by the time he got home he was livid...with me. Yes. He's the drunk driver, but I am clearly the problem. I got all kinds of crap about how badly I was treating him. He tried to get his buddies to agree and they were like, dude, SHE'S RIGHT. I talked to his parents about it all as well.
Anyway, his mom talked to him about it too and he's been pissed at me ever since. I get the silent treatment for no reason, this he alternates with lovey dovey stuff and gifts...then he's mad again. He's just totally nuts.
I've tried this week to ignore the moods and be pleasant, but he let me have it tonight. He just was not going to be satisfied until he unloaded all his garbage and guilt onto me so he could feel better. So I got about an hour of how crazy I am, and how bad he's got it, blah blah blah blah.
Then he made me dinner and hoped I'd join him. Presto, let's be chums. I said, oh, is my punishment over? He said his favorite line...come on, let's just forget about it.
If I had more than 10 dollars in my pocket, I'd leave.
