ok so I will be picking up my mail on Thursday. Since I initiated contact about logistical matters her texts have been pretty cold. To me 'coldness' toward a person is a passive-aggressive attempt at getting them to react. I plan to do the opposite and greet my W for the first time with confidence and cheer. If she wants to chat I will chat (but will end it first). If not I will get my mail and be on my merry way. If she asks about D I will repeat what I said per a db coach about not wanting it but not going against her free-will either. She gets to do the work on that little 'monkey' though. Anyway, I hope my acting skills are up to par because by no means have I detatched completely. It kind of sucks being fairly comfortable with db methods but not getting much opportunity to use them except in situations that involve myself or other ppl. Wish me luck!..
