Thanks Sandi. You made me think and laugh. Great combination.
You are right that I probably do not need to know how long this will take. I am trying not to focus on the long term other than realizing the goal I'm working towards. Eyes on the prize thing.
I am making sure I'm not the doormat. Coach has helped a lot with his input. Basically trying to lead in a loving, respectful way. I have seen positive results from that. And I like the way it makes me feel.
I am trying to make sure even when I am lounging at the house on the weekends that I look good. Shaven, hair, clothes. Nothing over the top, just well put together.
On the comment about ML, she has not had a high sex drive in a LOOONG time. With the early menopause startign 6 months ago, I do not look for this to change anytime soon. Just hope I can make it through that.
And, you are correct that I want to speed this up, even though I know I can't. Those dam$ emotions getting in the way. I sually do well controlling them, but they have been winning the last day or so (until today).
Thanks again Sandi. I really apreciate your input.
