Anyone that has done what xW has done, is continuing to do, should feel that guilt. But it seems that xW responds to guilt by simply perpetuating more acts she should feel guilty for.
I got word from the L that she has tendered an acceptance of a settlement in our case, as currently worded. However, given xW nasty behaviors of late and the terrible words she's spoken behind my back, I gather she is not being sincere herself in seeking a settlement.
In fact, as it turns out, after all of the hullabaloo she raised over my contacting our former neighbors and a mutual friend or two, and after all the resulting "gaslighting" of my character and her telling everyone how dangerously insane I might be for having contacted these folks, my xW has done the very same thing herself: She approached my brother's wife, the one seeking to have their own M ended (MLC, I strongly suspect), and made a FB friendship request. xW also began sending my SIL emails prying into the demise of their M and shoveling a load of lies about me to her. My SIL is likely gullible enough to think xW is being sincere, especially since xW is now portraying herself as a kindred spirit; they are both infected with the WAW disease.
This just shows xW to be as vile and petty as her mother, and an absolute hypocrit. I am tempted to ape xW's own words right back at her, telling her I now fear for the safety of myself and our children because of her disturbed interference and "poisoning" of my personal R with others.
