So, I texted H today that DD found her shadow, and he actually called me back and told me about his day for a few minutes. They let his company drink beer, so they've been a bunch of drunk useless soldiers all day long... I said good for him, hoped he was having a good time!

I was lucky enough to receive the following voicemail from H's mom:

"dmk127, this is MIL. Would you please give me a call, I wanna find out why you and H aren't talking to me or having anything to do with me and i can't reach H because he's out of town and I just want to find out why you won't let me have anything to do with DD. Please call me."

I haven't seen or talked to her since November, and she hasn't seen DD since about the same time. H talks to her maybe once a month or so - and he hasn't had time to arrange any visits. He certainly hasn't told her about the separation.

I would love to tell her exactly why we don't talk to her - I would moreso love H to tell her why we don't talk to her - but he never will, and she wouldn't get it anyway.

Me - 30, H - 32
T - 10, M - 6, D - 1
DD#1 - 4, DD#2 - 2
on/off OW 4/09 - sometime Summer 2010 (Told me about OW 4/10)
Separated 6/11/09, divorced 8/4/10, trying again 9/2011