I have to agree with you on the pursuing end of it completely. A friend of mine lent me the movie, after I told him about my sitch. I then bought the book. He was trying to be helpful. At the time my wife had only one foot out the door. I got to about day seven and keep it up till I found this site, I probablly wasted a lot of time on it. If a couple were to get back together, like you said, I think it has some exellent ideas to follow.
M (46) W (45) S (17) D (14) D (6) T (20) M (17) Seperated 3/2009 . When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze." Isaiah 43:2
