Hey Julia, I think you are letting go of the fear & detachment lark! You realize it when you don't worry if they respond & you don't play the I'll wait to respond game. If ya feel like it do it. No response - definitely his loss! Many men are all about fantasies. Did you ever wear a naughty nurses outfit? wink Bet that would have changed his thoughts about you .... lol

With your house selling/your move - with my D - yep you are right, sometimes what is best we cannot see.


Me39, XH45
Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)