Originally Posted By: oldtimer
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Why would W recommit when she is still lacking a lover? I wouldn't marry anyone who was not my lover. Would you?


Ot... I know what you are saying and we are almost there. I can finely touch her without her cringing. I can finley joke with her without her getting PO'ed.
She has seen the change in me and I am seeing the changes in her.
Day,
“Reading your updates it seems the tension has shifted a bit to "what do I do next?"”
It may have come off that way to you but really it’s THIS IS WHAT I AM DOING NEXT.
Back to you OT. EVERYONE is different and the only thing you all know about my W is what I have said. NO two sitches are the same…

I think and I know “hope4” said it in his sitch. “I can’t put my finger on it but she is holding back”
It’s like not taking the last cookie.. You know you want it but something stops you from taking it.
I know she wants my cookie but had talked her out of taking it.
She has let down her wall. It’s still there a little but it’s no longer made of stone more like paper now..

Soon OT and Day. Real soon..
We are at the flirting stage right now which is pretty good being that two years ago we were disgusted with each other.
And you know what flirting leads to…

OT you are right about the moving back into our room.
I am no longer pushing that.. I want to seduce her back…

AND I not only have the R on my plate now I have money, job search and possibly going back to school…kind of nice really though it gives me a break for the R worries..

Doc


And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know