I'm not here to neccessarily argue about love dare principles, but you are already confused enough about DB principles, so why mix in something (if I understand it correctly) is designed for M improvement. You are tying to bust a divoce. You are past the stage for the "improvements".....especially in the opinion of your Wife!! What I mean is that a lot of people get these two ideas (books) and the principles confused (it seems) and you are trying to figure out about "detaching". Forget the love dare approach! Before anyone comes unglued reading this.....I'm not putting that book down! I'm just saying to stick to what you have here--in order to keep it less confusing. When your W comes back into the M and she's willing to "work".....THEN you can start applying the love dare principles.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
