Telling the kids is the bit I`m really stuck on. Not like they haven`t suspected anything already S11 has already asked `does Dad love you anymore` `are you and dad getting a divorce`

I don`t think I want us to separate but if that`s what H wants I`ll accept it. Reading your post gives me hope that my kids too will be able to accept us being split up.

Breaks my heart right now but then just about everything does!

Thanks, Jeff