DQ - Good point. You dont want to see your H on dateline.

I would start making plans for a temp S. He doesnt need to know that it is temp. Hopefully, you will shake up his world enough of the thought of losing you and the family. I know it has worked for the rest of us on this board wink If not then he's not worth it anyway. If he is too selfish to care then you will have your answer.

Regardless, get help soon. I will keep u in my prayers. I will pray that you find the strength to do what is right.

PMA