Orich - I think there is a way to be more assertive where it comes across as attractive, rather than a ranting and raving lunatic. I think it comes from leading and having confidence in yourself. Do you need to work on self esteem at all?? Think about it, would you want to be with someone that really has no opinion on anything?? When I coach my teams I tell them that 90% of our mistakes and failures are a result of lack of confidence. Why should we lack confidence?? What are we afraid of? Confident, leading people are interesting. Could this be the 180 you are looking for?? It sounds like she is.
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