how do I move from friendship

[whitneypinch]

yep, I lost my drive and motivation when we were together. I used to have a big job in advertising in NYC. I am getting back into it now.
I do focus my energy on my kids. I take them travelling all over the place and do amazing things with them. I always let my ex know. If that is not a small motivation for her to be interested then I don't know what else.
As tough as it is, and it really is....I know I will find happiness. It's "sort of" time for me now.
So, we live each day..some days are good and some days we have many tears.
Keep posting !!!