Oh, honey, I want to go bat-[censored]-crazy on him. That poor little baby! Keep notes. Keep notes on everything, and if you have to - make his visitations court supervised.

I have to wonder how long the kept-boy-man wanna' be will be "special" and treated to toys. That has to get old after a while.

He is cruel and I would absolutely keep to your schedule to the letter. Also, you tell your BIL to let you know if he ever sees that little one screaming, or upset, or neglected. If you have to get a police escort then you go and get her.

I am so sorry you have to be tormented this way and truly, truly worried for K.

Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08,
S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012!
Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.