No thanks necessary...It helps me to vent too. That's why we're here. Good for you on the zero fights. Do not underestimate the value of that. Again, trust me on that one. You keep yourself in the game by obeying that rule. And yeah, stay dim....I would suggest that you let her do the initiating in regard to conversations. Yeah, also grew up having to listen to some bad fights. I had alot of friends to hang with though, so I was able to get out of the house, play ball, hop trains(LOL, yeah, I did do that) and basically get away from that atmosphere. Plus school, which afforded me more escape time. Been there, done that one. Yeeeeah...I do want to see Toronto. That CN building, the falls, Leafs game. Always wanted to stay at the hotel where the Jays play. You open your window shades, and whoa, there's the field!! How very cool. At 400 a night, not so cool. That is on my to-do list for sure. Looks like not this year though. Dammit. Always wanted to see a Canadiens/Bruins game in Montreal also.