I am detaching as best as I can. We still live together, so it is difficult. I spend a lot of time at the gym, and work late twice a week. The weekends are especially hard because she still has us doing family things. One of the things she said she had a problem with in MC was that I was generally quiet and didn't initiate conversation much. That, and she felt I didn't spend much time with the kids. So I am adressing those things while at the same time trying to detach. It is a difficult balance. Since she said she wanted to go to Retro, I have only asked her twice if she called, and that's it. Just asked. I didn't make a big deal of it at all. In fact, when she said she would go, all I said was that I would begin registration. Theonly reason why I asked if she called was because they need to know if we are going to keep the spot for us. I posted a little while ago for advice on how to further detach. I realize that I can improve in that area. I have tried to be cool and distant since I learned the technique here.
Me-40 W-41 Together-10 M-8 S-6 S-4 Bomb 5/08 Bomb 10/08 Thought things were better, was wrong. Still living together Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.
