I agree with frank, SH..perhaps a brief period in the other section will help others and also get you going to better places. There are some that feel an obligation to hang around here and help others. Most, appropriately, close a door on the recent pain, and file it under "My Life History" and move on. Certainly, staying here for a prolonged period of time, IMO, keeps wounds open.

Dunno...personal choice.

I think you've made a right decision by letting go. Dr. Gray in his blue book says that the hope for reconciliation is a form of denial and that ANY broken R/M cannot reconcile without completely going to zero first.

Life is short...and there is no need to waste your time anymore. Let your XW enjoy Baskin and Robbins. Sooner or later...you run out of flavors.

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;