Kudos SD. WTG. Ya know...you've been thru the early DB crap. You walked on your eggshells. You avoided conflict like we all do in the beginning. You tried your calm and quiet communication.

You did your full blown DB stuff.

Now..reading the above...as Carrie says in SITC, "I like-ee".

You were firm.

You drew your boundary.

You are letting him know that you've had enough.

You are saying that there are TWO in an M..not three.

You've told him, now, that you are willing to file if he doesn't show YOU ...that your marriage is worth it.

I think you've done fine girl....WTG. My only advice to you now..is...to set a time limit in your mind. I don't care WHAT others say here...but...set a limit. You need to mentally prepare that you MUST have a plan and stick with it lest it show weakness.

Finally, as a joke:
Originally Posted By: SD

I told him he was a great guy--fun, light hearted, ambitious, kind, good looking, funny--

and had a bigger......oh never mind (guys don't take that well....ROFLMAO).

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;