The dinner party idea was suggested by him. I was a little hesitant because he was thinking about doing something every two weeks- that sounded a little overwhelming for me, schedule-wise. I wasn't against it, but I also wasn't brimming over with excitement at the idea, so he dropped it, saying well, it won't be any fun anyways if you're not excited about it. I told him if he wants to have someone over, then have them over. He knows a lot more people than me, so he would probably need to take the lead with the invites, but I'll be more than happy to put something together, just let me know how many to expect (he works at a big corp with 1,000's of people, there's 16 where i work). I am a wonderful hostess if I do say so myself... I fail to see why this couldn't be worked out if he really wanted it. I think it was easier for him to blame me for not providing it for him than to actually put some work into it himself. He is often frustrated at himself for having the same introvert tendencies that I have, so I think he is projecting his frustrations onto me.
