Emotional affair wife won't admit

[dgtal]

I trusted my wife for 29 years after I found 100's phone calls back and forth in her cell call history with the manager of the supermarket. I haven't confronted him, but I did asked her to stop it. She did, I still trust her but I haven't stopped doing my "survillance" work. Don't give up. Verify and make sure there is not communication or contact of any kind AT ALL. This is month number 11 after the Discovery Day. Big positive changes had happened in our house and still applying what I learn with this amazing DB book. I sometimes feel like I should stop and let it go and forget about it. But this OP still the manager of the local Supermarket and I feel unconfortable. She is going to a different one. Sometimes we go together and sometimes I do the shopping myself. We even exchange cellular phones, she uses mine , I use her. So far so good, but I still dont' trust anybody until at least she admit it. Because like in Jman case, my wife said that was nothing, just some friendly phone calls. And by the way, the OM is married. At this point, I haven't expose the affair to the OMW. I don't know if I should do it...God bless all...and good luck!