LOL....That totally went straight over my head (blonde moment)...You are more then welcome to call her my favorite word in the english language ~Serenity...
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~
Guys - if you want to join in please write your answers on the back of a $50 and send to......
Listen to Serenity (no contact). Man Up and think about what you need to do for yourself for a while.Pretend she's on the dark side of the moon. It is very difficult to do. I started six weeks ago(fallen off the wagon and got back on), she will call you. My W did after about two weeks(don't fall off the wagon like I did). Don't pick answer or text right away.Take your time. I have children involved so its a little harder for me to completely let go. But it does work.
M (46) W (45) S (17) D (14) D (6) T (20) M (17) Seperated 3/2009 . When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze." Isaiah 43:2
I just realized - there is Another Woman in my W's life - the "friend" from hell.
And that my W is gradually moving away from her support and company little by little.
She's spending more and more time at other people's houses. Weekends etc. I'm going to do whatever I can to help this along.
The job must have made a huge difference - getting her out of "friends" home for the day.
It's only been 13 days since she started work but I'm sure she's getting back to normal.
Her confidence levels must be vastly improved.
I can't help but think that all of these things are big positives.
I'm going to leave a blank "Thank You" card for Nigel (our friend who gave W the job). No signature. No explanation. And buy him a drink - also no explanation. He's a big softy! He's also a guy to stand up for what is right.
I just wish she'd get to the stage of contacting me about US. Up until now nothing. Not even about money.
Not even sure she's still thinking about me as much as I constantly think about her.
Found out from two separate sources that dissension in the ranks has been happening over the past week or so between W and "friend".
YAY - and I had nothing to do with it.
Also found out that everyone is saying "stay calm, show people exactly who you are (me) and watch!"
I bought Nigel a drink. Barmaid (on our side) said it was from me and I said thank you. Let him read what he likes into that. I know what he will read into it.
So here I am - no contact - and everyone is saying the same thing! So very VERY weird.
Had an SMS from W best friend - "Ken is it okay if Philip and I come tomorrow for 1 drink"
My reply "Absolutely. Only a day late Hugs! X. Ken"
And back "Ok cool, see you just before 6. X ;-)"
And again "Lovit! 1 only? Yeah right :-)"
And back " Ha ha you know what I mean ;$"
And to her "Will have something to show you then. Not wife though :-( itt'll happen u watch ;-)~"
Followed with "Sh1t I wish I hadn't said that! Don't be upset! I'm not. Just VERY positive. Hugs?"
And a final back (she is very sensitive - said she didn't want to come between us....
"No, relax. B-)"
Ah life is so very good to those that see. (May make that my sig!)
Hi to one and all viewing this roller-coaster of mine/ours.
Hope you are all taking notes!
BTW - Serenity is swimming around in her new home - Stick won't leave her alone. It's so CUTE!
HUGS all around.
Will pop back later after I've taken care of my husbandly duties (cooking, washing up, looking after others and then eating :-)
I know where my priorities lie - not with me - sorry DB'ers you probably don't agree with me there but what the stuff!
Listening to me K? Just between us! Just don't blame me for anything I say.
YAY!
Anything is possible. Absolutely anything. Time is not a problem. Distance is not a problem. Communications is not a problem.
What fabulous thoughts!
Work on yourself each and every way and watch a miracle happen.
I adore reading your posts...I think I need a translator half the time though...I am happy you got Sticks a new friend and I am thrilled to have a namesake
"Anything is possible. Absolutely anything. Time is not a problem. Distance is not a problem. Communications is not a problem." This is beautiful
Enjoy your kip and I will talk to you soon!
(((Hugs)))
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~
