FallGirl is right. You are the same person he was just complimenting, having fun with, etc... He's the one with the tumultuous BRAIN!
You can't stop him if he has something he wants to DECLARE, but you can control how you react. Who knows? You might learn something! I know I talktalktalkemotionemotionemotion too much, and we don't get anywhere but louder that way.
Be my example!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
