However, in my case my H, to this day (19 months later) still never misses a chance to say we cant be married anymore.
The variation I get is "I still want to be a family, but I just don't want to be married."
uhhh...no.
"My actions are my only true belongings. I cannot escape the consequences of my actions. My actions are the ground upon which I stand." Thich Nhat Hanh