Fine. Then what plans does he have to "help you" with your "insecurities" and "confidence issues" that do NOT involve swinging? For instance, taking classes together, beginning or maintaining a practice of physical fitness, mastering a new sport or hobby, hosting dinner parties, things that would result in feelings of competence and healthy adult socializing?

What does he mean by "everything else falls into place?"

Last edited by Kettricken; 07/21/09 05:17 PM.
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