I'd say accept this right now for what it is. Try not to look at it as your long term future. Have you gone to the rejoice ministries website yet? In the questions and answers section, there are good things that can help you. I'd say keep having faith in God, keep praying. Don't look at other women as an option. Focus on God, you, your kids, and your M. Pray everyday. I pray multiple times a day.

I have thought about that to when I take my kids somewhere and I wonder if this is my future just me and them with W no longer in it. Its depressing especially when you see other couples and families. It makes you wonder why it has to be this way. But there is a greater plan that will be revealed to you and hopefully it includes your W coming back to you. I believe if you stand for your M, that God will reward you at some point. He wants marriage's restored. But you have to do what he is asking you to do and be patient. Remember the story of the tea cup? "Not yet".

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...