Helpful post Kalni. Some of us need to rip the damn bandaid off already so we can heal.
Yep. And some prefer to peel it slowly. If SP is the latter type, it seems to me that we should support him in that.
That being said, I also agree with DQ's point, in that she was merely responding to SP's question about why his wife is saying the things she is, and it may very well be that his "peel the Band-Aid off slowly" style is driving her bonkers.
