im so sitting on edge, i want him to call me, clear this up.
me: 31 H:29 Son:5 m:8 years in november t:10 years first bomb: 10/06 moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08 ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06 d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08 moved home:3/09 out again 5/09
my husband. i left him a message, but im sure he wont (cant) call me if she is around.
im totally out of my mind. i want to call the police, but again, its hard to conduct business like that with my son sitting here.
i just dont know what she meant and im concerned she is going to show up here. its as if that is next.
me: 31 H:29 Son:5 m:8 years in november t:10 years first bomb: 10/06 moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08 ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06 d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08 moved home:3/09 out again 5/09
me: 31 H:29 Son:5 m:8 years in november t:10 years first bomb: 10/06 moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08 ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06 d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08 moved home:3/09 out again 5/09
called police. they are already processing my report from sunday, da is on it, or something like that.
he said they will send an officer now to my house to file new report. i said no because my son is home.
he told me it isnt pressing, i can come whenever i want and if she shows up, i can dial 911 and they will arrest her.
still dont know what message means, still havent heard from h.
me: 31 H:29 Son:5 m:8 years in november t:10 years first bomb: 10/06 moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08 ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06 d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08 moved home:3/09 out again 5/09
Is the TSO going to state that she just PHYSICALLY can't come within "x" number of yards of you, or is it also going to cover the electronic harassment?
pretty sure she cannot contact me and cannot come near me or my son or anyone in my family.
i wish i knew what she meant in that message. im terrified that she is pregnant (knock on wood please).
me: 31 H:29 Son:5 m:8 years in november t:10 years first bomb: 10/06 moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08 ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06 d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08 moved home:3/09 out again 5/09
JMHO, but I don't know how seriously you will be taken if you keep putting the cops off like this. I understand you want to protect your son, and that is admirable, but why can't you send him to his room to play for the duration of the phone call or the visit or whatever? Maybe others have a better understanding of how these things work, and will chip in their insights. But to me, if they're being responsive enough to your (valid) concerns to offer to send an officer, take them up on it.
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