What gets me confused is often we seem to have a perfectly good marriage- he can treat me really nice when he wants to. Last night he was really nice, and is tonight offering to help me tune up my bicycle. It makes me crazy because then I wonder if I'm making a mountain out of a molehill, and I start second-guessing myself. He is acting as if we never discussed splitting, MC, etc.- wth is going on? (Note to self: H wants to f*** other women. H uses you as bait to get these other women because they are part of a couple. H doesn't care if you f*** other guys. H wants to make you responsible for his happiness. H claims he knows what's best for you, but he is not an IC. H wants you on medication. Keep all this in mind, Bunny!!!)
I want to try talking to him again, hopefully tonight, and see where he really wants to go from here- no more tap dancing around. I really appreciate everyone's posts, they have helped me see things from a different perspective. I guess an outsider can see things more clearly sometimes.
