I will be diligent. According to my H she is really heartbroken about her H and her kids. Her H has been so unbelievably mean to her (even trying to get their children to say mom is crazy) so I really believe that's why she wouldn't talk to him. His latest ploy was to say that he's not going to file for divorce because he doesn't want to look like the bad guy. He thought they should just live separated with the agreement that they can see other people.
Unfortunately now she's given him even more fuel for the fire. You know he'll use this against her in the divorce.
Believe me - I will be watching my H very closely. For now he seems to be truly genuine in his feelings. I will definitely keep and eye on and help not to get dragged into the middle of this further.
My H said last night that he hopes the therapist tells her she needs to not have any contact with anyone in her life right now - especially him. He said I know that's not being a good friend but I don't like the position I'm in. He did say that he'd warned his best friend that he thought something like this could happen and had said to him how will you feel if it does?
