I'm sorry to hear about your friend -- I hope she's okay and gets the help she needs. I would strongly caution you that you are very likely to continue to see a reaction out of your husband over this, and it's going to present you with a delicate balancing act. You want to remain supportive of him (because it's "the right thing to do" and also because he responded favorably to it), but you also don't want to get caught in the middle.
More importantly, you don't want HIM to REMAIN caught in the middle! It's not right, nor healthy, that she would only talk to your husband and not to her OWN husband, but then again we've already had our doubts about this woman and your husband, haven't we.
REMAIN VIGILANT.I think it's very likely that she did this to generate sympathy from your husband.
