Newbie (again)

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Telling someone who is depressed to snap out of it, isn't the answer.
My h was depressed and had also threatened to hurt himself, and the one thing that he said used to really bother him the most is when people would tell him to snap out of it, or get over it. It does help, they want to!

I think by the tone of this posting the moderators should step in and try and track dday down and make sure he is ok.

It is obvious he needs help, and hopefully he can get some before anything happens.