Karen, I think his story is that he was engaged or something and the woman dumped him....so years later he tried again...and the lady dumped him as well...and married the guy she dumped him for...

So, perhaps he is gun-shy....I dunno. Also, he is my aunt's BIL....and he really loves and respects my aunt...and I think he is sorta old-fashioned or maybe he just believes in acting like a gentleman....WOW! I LIKE THIS GUY!!!

I also think that if turns out that there is no chemistry he does not want that to impact his relationship with my aunt---she is really well-liked by her husband's family.

At any rate...he is a really good guy...a bit quirky and I am sure I will find out why he has never been married...

We shall see.....

Hugs,
Alix

Aug '06: H moved out
July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller