Hmmmm as once a WAS I felt the need to respond to your post.
I believe that WAS believe it all right. They just want you to go away and understand.
WAS don't get up one morning and think to themselves ' well this was fun, but now what ?'
WAS begin leaving the M eons before LBS are told. WAS leave the M because there is something not being fulfilled in the M.
LBS are hurt and devastated and desperate because the WAS have left them in shock. Any LBS on this board, see the D day coming ! Not many I bet.
WAS have worked through many many emotions before doing whatever it is they needed to do to get out. Affairs, ILYBIANILWU ,lies , abuse - you all know the drill.
A little empathy here might make WAS a little more human. Their actions and talk are similar because they all feel the same. Trapped, guilty, sad, alone, scared and angry.
