I`m wondering is it time for the `tough love` stage. Shape up or bail out buddy cos I`ve had it with him his moods, his blaming me for everything, and his absenteeism as a father too. H knows that in our country I`ll get custody of the kids, and get to live with them in the family home. He`ll be the big loser.
Then again it might give him the chance to live the bachelor life he so obviously craves.
Fallgirl.....
THAT.....Sounds like a ploy to me.....
Be careful what you ask for.....you might just get it.
IF...it interferes with YOU living your life for you, then yes, it may be better for you...
If you have to do this, and it is what is best for YOU, then find a balance and do it from a place of love instead of anger...
I.E.
Get the hell out !
OR
I see you struggling with things, and I want you to have the oppurtunity to think things through without any pressure from me....You deserve that...Why don't WE find a way for that to happen for you...
