Kerry, I have been dividing things up myself this past week. Sorted the BIG box of cards/letters into his/hers piles. Then found a box marked "dresser" and lo and behold, some more cards and letters and a couple pictures he had been keeping in his dresser drawers before the move. Always bittersweet. I am keeping my half because they were real at the time. And because someday even if we are divorced, I want the kids to see and know that their mom and dad truly loved each other and that they were born of love.