WAW Using God

[pigskin]

Not that you "asked" me what I think.....but I THINK you are interpreting what YOU want to hear in her statements. I hope you are right and my feelings about this is so off the chart wrong!

Thanks Sandi. And feel free to comment any way you feel. I promise I won't take offense. You have an extremely valuable perspective as a former WAW, one I highly value, so I would LOVE to know what you think. You can take the kid gloves off with me; I actually prefer that.

We are continuing to talk, and it has become apparent that extreme guilt seems to be kicking in on her side; she has said that. The frustrating thing is she feels extreme guilt on both sides of the equation - if she elects to stay, she is going to feel horrible about what she did to the OM, and if she leaves, she knows there will be extreme guilt towards what she did to me as well. This is causing her paralysis.

My position is that it is her decision and hers alone, and she has to face it. There is no free lunch here. I have no sympathy towards the OM and any hurt feelings he may eventually have. He deserves them.