MC Counseling session didn't go very well. MC talked to my W first and then me.

Basically, MC advised me that my W wants a divorce and he recommended a "collaborative" D. Asked me when I wanted to sit down with a Collaborative D and start the process of dissolving the M.

I told both of them that:

A. I wasn't interested in a D
B. I wasn't getting rid of the emails that prove my W had an A and will keep her from getting Alimony.
C. I wasn't committing to following this process of dissolving M.

At the end of the session, he said he would recommend we continue seeing him so we could work through the process of D.

I chuckled and said no thanks. $180/hr for this?

My question is: My W is seeing an attorney tomorrow. I plan to continue DBing. Any other suggestions at this point? I would like to get us to Retro, but not sure she would be willing now.

Me 38 / W 37
M 14 yrs
S 11/S8
First Bomb: 3/6/2009 EA
Second Bomb: 6/4/2009 PA
Same House
Separate Rooms