you gotta "drive" your life, YOUR LIFE ...like you are driving down an incredibly narrow city street with all the typical mega traffic every which way. In order to successfully navigate through this intensely saturated mess you MUST maintain your focus on YOU and YOU'RE "vehicle" (aka ..life) with only periodic occasional glimpses of the other motorists just to maintain proper spacing and safety.
Your W is but one of the other motorists and at THIS POINT she views you as just one of the other dang cars on the road (just as you HAVE to do).
Your mission, should you choose to accept it is to keep your auto ding-free (no paint swapping ..this sure aint no demo. derby), keep her between the painted lines, keep your speed up, be vigilant to your surroundings using all your sensory mechanisms. watch out for pedestrians ...ole' hunched over ladies with canes, umbrellas, walkers ..what not.
Only this is life ...this aint no game. Many of the same rules apply though.
You are doing more well than past Kevin but future Kevin has to do it weller than present Kevin.
Got it!
Good.
Walk swiftly with the Lord with all you got. Your W is NOT your friend ..count on your friends to boost you.