I am just at a total loss at this point. I am sure that a lot of things I am doing are wrong. I am sure that some of the things I am doing are right. It is just frustrating that she has such double standards at this point, but can't see it. She is moving out, and that will help, but the kids are crushed. I had to tell them the truth, because all W gave them was a sugarcoated version of what is going on and how all of this was going to be an adventure for them. This is not a F*C%^nG adventure for the kids, it is their lifes too!