Hmmm, looks like the other half of the storm is blowing up fast and it might be shaping up to be high intensity.
Week for me has gone well while H as been at work, been out and about catching up with friends most days. First couple of days H was very friendly on the phone and the week off vibe continued.
In then had a late night with the single lads and pulled right back. Kind of expecting it after a good week, I ignored it. The last couple of days my toddlers have have the flu again, mild temps etc and H showed little interest in this (been hard to post for this reason too). Irrespective of his mood, he usually asks if I am taking them to Dr etc, so I noted it, but said nothing.
He is due back tomorrow and said just before he had to stay an extra day out "to see about his head". I said huh? and he has booked another session with his IC. The only other time he has seen the IC was after the 12 months of not knowing why he was unhappy last year, he saw the IC and came back and TOLD me, no discusssion "you are the reason I am unhappy and I want out". I strongly feel he is going to say "I have tried real hard for 6 months, things are not perfect, I want out". He also said just before he is chasing up the asset sales as we need to get this resolved asap.
What has changed? I think sitting around with a bunch of single blokes having fun with the single life after a better week at home, probably being teased about the "ball and chain " etc. Probably a pull back after a good run for a few weeks. He will come back and TELL me his position, it wil not be a discussion as he will want to state it. Fair enough (and yes it might be good but that is not the vibe).
I am very frustrated that we are finally on a better path and he is hauling us off again. I will listen and try to not be pulled in, but he will want to know where my head is at, although will not take it into account.
I just am looking at my little kids faces and am so upset that he is doing this to them.
