Thank goodness you didn't send anything. Boy oh boy I know the temptation is there to throw everything but the kitchen sink at the "problem". Been there, done that. And we all know how very hard it is to resist but resist you must.
I just posted this on my thread -
I've been told by one very good freind, that she DOES know I love her. she DOES know I'm here for her, she DOES know she can come back, she DOES know I'm improving day-by-day. Rubbing her nose in it isn't going to help in any way.
Sometimes I forget this advice - but it's true - even if I sometimes doubt it.
Don't feel bad about having a couple of downers - must be something in the water - I did exactly the same on Sunday. Share those downers here - we all have very wide shoulders.
Crying is not weak! Just got to choose your moments - not in a public bar for example Sorry that sounded flippant - just my humor gland kicking in - forgive me.
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So if I take a stand for something and set my boundaries she detests me and if I don't, she doesn't respect me.
