WAW - Very confused and devastated - pt 11

[confusedinpa]

Just more journaling. Not much from the wife today. Just a couple of text messages on some tactical stuff on the boys.

The boys and I finished the mulch today. They had slept in till 9AM (normally they get up around 6:30), so I guess all the work yesterday took a lot out of them. We didn't get to started with the mulch till 10 AM and finished around 2:30 PM. We grabed a quick lunch and came home to play with the water stuff in the backyard. My 3 year old missed his nap but he seemed fine.

My wife showed up around 5PM to pick up the boys. They were excited to show her all the work we did in the yard. I got the boys changed out of their swimming stuff so they could go with my wife.

She seemed a little stand off-ish today. I expected as much as whenever we get close, we have a few days of "arms length". We talked about her day in her new department. She said she was really tired today.

I went out for dinner with one of my buddies. My boys called me when we were have a few beers, and my wife asked me to be quick with the good nite stuff as my 3 year old was really acting up.

Afterwards, she sent me a text asking if my 3 year old missed his nap. I didn't answer it.

I had a good dinner and beer with my buddy.

I had planned on doing my pre-employment screening tomorrow at lunch so I had gotten my wife's mom to watch the boys. I took care of it tonite since my wife picked up the boys early. So I text one of my friends to grab lunch together instead. Figure it may be a while before I had lunch with her (she is the one who is 16+ weeks pregnant and her grandmother has cancer).

I had thought about trying to have lunch with the WAW from my old job, but thought it may be weird since we had never had lunch together before (she had worked for me).

So goes another day - less than a week before I start my new job.....