The ironic thing is that he claims he felt closer to me due to the swinging and I put up walls around my emotions.
He is using emotional blackmail when he says things like this. Don't you think this man knows you and what makes you tick? All he has to do is throw a bone your way.....such as that statement.....and he thinks you'll do ANYTHING for him to feel closer. Please! Honey, there are sperm donors all over this world, but it doesn't make them a daddy. If you were looking for a great father figure for your children.....would you really choose him? What will they learn from seeing what is lived out before them?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
