What do you mean by this? Do you mean they take advantage if you don't set proper boundaries?
Don't get me wrong...but why is my H the only MLCer that is ALL about the kids? I don't want him to abandon them by any means. I want them to have a good dad. It just makes me think maybe this is all just about me. He was actually normal tonight. Well, not normal if we were talking 2 years ago...but normal for today's standards. Nothing good, nothing bad, nothing weird...
Our 10 year anniversary is on Friday...how sad. Expectations at zero. I will get him a card. One that I would give to another couple...not one for a husband. I will only give him the card if he gives me something. If not, I don't want to give him anything.
I wasn't sad all day. I felt fine. It was a good day. Then I went on facebook. I saw all these darn happy looking families & couples & remarks that included funny things spouses were doing...and here I am now. SAD again.
Me 36, Him 33 M 11yrs, T 15yrs S 8, D 7 ILYBINILWY - 1/09 H moves out 10/09 D to be final SOON I HOPE!
