If you are worried about her safety, you need to tell someone. And document how shes acting, you might need it later.

Let her enjoy her little pity party, I think that when she says that you dont care about her, she expects you to insist that you do. I would just tell you are sorry she feels that way, and you understand, validate her feelings! And that you hope that you can be strong co-parents for your kids. I wouldnt even acknowledge the I dont want to be with you comment.


I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...